It makes such a difference to our young and their friends if we can connect them with people who can offer a useful listening ear and insight into the field that they are applying to for work. I hope too that those looking for work will reach out to their contemporaries, giving them leads and contacts.
What is important, even if you do not ‘feel’ like it (which, given the intensity of this time and the sheer volume of conversations being had and interviews prepped for is more than likely), is to always follow up with a note of thanks. This keeps connections alive and also gratitude is appreciated by the recipient. If you have met somebody who has taken the time to listen and offer counsel and direction, acknowledge this. Whether via an email or a text, it just shows manners and that you are appreciative.
This time of looking for work is extremely intensive. As Richard Bolles quotes at the start of each of his excellent books (What Colour Is Your Parachute) – looking for a job is a job in itself.
It requires focus, preparation, attention to detail (keep good records throughout) and follow through. Writing notes of thanks for the interview as well as to those with whom you have had chats and informal meetings with, stands out.
Keep going; give it your all; you are getting there!